Mox Posted November 13, 2019 Share Posted November 13, 2019 On 10/18/2019 at 11:03 AM, bluemushrooms said: How many dates do you guys usually go on before considering you and the girl/other person to be exclusive or officially dating? Let her decide that. If you play it right she'll start bringing it up to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikesfan89 Posted November 17, 2019 Share Posted November 17, 2019 I met a real nice girl on some bus trip. We hit it off right away. I was trying to figure out if she wanted something more or if it was just a temporary thing. Then my damn alarm clock went off 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vike daddy Posted November 18, 2019 Share Posted November 18, 2019 On 11/13/2019 at 4:06 PM, Bullet Club said: Let her decide that. If you play it right she'll start bringing it up to you. calculating "strategies" like this really bother me when i see them. why is there a need to play anything with a date? why not just be honest and ask the questions about things you each question, and want to understand better? 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mox Posted November 18, 2019 Share Posted November 18, 2019 1 hour ago, vike daddy said: calculating "strategies" like this really bother me when i see them. why is there a need to play anything with a date? why not just be honest and ask the questions about things you each question, and want to understand better? Those things aren't mutually exclusive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WizeGuy Posted November 22, 2019 Share Posted November 22, 2019 On 11/18/2019 at 4:01 PM, vike daddy said: calculating "strategies" like this really bother me when i see them. why is there a need to play anything with a date? why not just be honest and ask the questions about things you each question, and want to understand better? It seems to be common amongst the younger guys to play these sorta mental gymnastics with women. To be fair, younger women do it a lot too. As both parties start to grow older they start to realize it's much easier to be upfront about these little things. It helps the relationship grow and creates a comfort between the couple. Communication is key even early on in the relationship. Bluemushrooms, just be up front with her. You'll find out where you stand, and that's what's important, because then you'll know how much to invest in this woman. If she's all for being exclusive, then you may have found a good woman to settle down with. If she doesn't want to be exclusive, well, then she isn't quite as invested as you are, so you should maybe reel it back a bit. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mega Ron Posted November 22, 2019 Share Posted November 22, 2019 Follow her for a week or so. If she doesn't meet up with another guy then it's just you. This is foolproof. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KOTN-93 Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 Moving out of the midwest for the 1st time. Tips for meeting people where you know no one and the culture may be different (Moving to KC if that helps) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fl0nkerton Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 47 minutes ago, KOTN-93 said: Moving out of the midwest for the 1st time. Tips for meeting people where you know no one and the culture may be different (Moving to KC if that helps) Are you looking for friends or a S/O or both? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KOTN-93 Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 1 minute ago, Fl0nkerton said: Are you looking for friends or a S/O or both? Both 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vike daddy Posted December 5, 2019 Share Posted December 5, 2019 5 hours ago, KOTN-93 said: Both what kinds of things do you like to do for fun? can you join clubs? volunteer your time? good way to meet new people, and you know right away you have one common interest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KOTN-93 Posted December 5, 2019 Share Posted December 5, 2019 13 hours ago, vike daddy said: what kinds of things do you like to do for fun? can you join clubs? volunteer your time? good way to meet new people, and you know right away you have one common interest. Thats a good way to start. I fancy myself a decent cook and really enjoy it. I always enjoy a good standup show or play etc. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fl0nkerton Posted December 5, 2019 Share Posted December 5, 2019 18 hours ago, KOTN-93 said: Both Find a rec sport to play in. I've met tons of people playing flag football on weekends and teams are always looking for "Free Agents". They're usually down to grab a beer or two after the games as well. As for dating, Tinder/Bumble have been successful for me. Otherwise get a dog and go to the park. Or sign up for a yoga class. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vike daddy Posted December 6, 2019 Share Posted December 6, 2019 11 hours ago, KOTN-93 said: Thats a good way to start. I fancy myself a decent cook and really enjoy it. I always enjoy a good standup show or play etc. ok, so sign up for a hands on cooking class. you think a guy there wouldn't be popular with the ladies...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TOUCAN Posted December 6, 2019 Share Posted December 6, 2019 12 hours ago, vike daddy said: ok, so sign up for a hands on cooking class. you think a guy there wouldn't be popular with the ladies...? I'd date that person if I were a lady Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TOUCAN Posted December 6, 2019 Share Posted December 6, 2019 Serious question: I'm getting married next year, and my wife to be and I have always kinda gone back and forth on the whole biological child thing. I'm personally more for at least 1-2 of our own and then we want to do foster to adopt. However, I don't think she's all on board with the biological child thing and at the end, its more her choice than mine. Her body. While I will love any adopted child like any of my own, I still (greedy or not) would like my own bloodline to kinda continue. How would you breach the subject? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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