vike daddy Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 37 minutes ago, Bowler1215 said: We were chatting and she said the same 'You're not interested in me' crap again, so bye. I'm temped to send her a message that says 'if I wasn't interested in you why would I waste out time getting to know you?' something along those lines. Not sure if I should though. but as of now, moving on. just move on to someone a little more stable. or even a lot more stable. you tried your best, no need to try any further. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CWood21 Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 1 hour ago, Bowler1215 said: We were chatting and she said the same 'You're not interested in me' crap again, so bye. I'm temped to send her a message that says 'if I wasn't interested in you why would I waste out time getting to know you?' something along those lines. Not sure if I should though. but as of now, moving on. Yeah, just let it go. There's more fish in the sea, and you'll find one who won't put you through the ringer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scar988 Posted October 19, 2017 Author Share Posted October 19, 2017 My first thought at reading @Bowler1215's situation was RUN!!!!!! Don't just walk, RUN. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET80 Posted October 19, 2017 Share Posted October 19, 2017 On 10/14/2017 at 4:47 PM, Bowler1215 said: ...but as of now, moving on. Gotta know when to hold em, gotta know when to fold em. Fold on this one, she's insecure to the point to where she wants every other word coming from your mouth to be about how interesting she is and how you're head over heels for her. Insecurity such as that never goes away. Best be walking away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cddolphin Posted October 19, 2017 Share Posted October 19, 2017 On 10/14/2017 at 10:20 AM, vike daddy said: sounds like she has been dumped before for being a single mom, is hyper sensitive to it, and mistakenly lumped you in with the other guys who have done it to her Yep, she's a walking-talking self-fulfilling prophecy. Poor girl. So there's a corner store near my work I stop at most days. Family-run place. There's always this indian cutie working the register who mean-mugs every annoying customer with this stunning death glare. Thus far our interactions have been limited to "hi, thank you, bye" but today I asked if she ever has a day off. She said "not really" and then started giggling like I was Dave Attell or something. Should I make her my wife? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vike daddy Posted October 19, 2017 Share Posted October 19, 2017 i'm thinking second or third wife would be better. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET80 Posted October 19, 2017 Share Posted October 19, 2017 8 minutes ago, cddolphin said: Yep, she's a walking-talking self-fulfilling prophecy. Poor girl. So there's a corner store near my work I stop at most days. Family-run place. There's always this indian cutie working the register who mean-mugs every annoying customer with this stunning death glare. Thus far our interactions have been limited to "hi, thank you, bye" but today I asked if she ever has a day off. She said "not really" and then started giggling like I was Dave Attell or something. Should I make her my wife? Please leave that poor Indian girl alone. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cddolphin Posted October 19, 2017 Share Posted October 19, 2017 3 minutes ago, EliteTexan80 said: Please leave that poor Indian girl alone. But the open contempt written all over her face during certain interactions really revs my engine.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scar988 Posted October 19, 2017 Author Share Posted October 19, 2017 24 minutes ago, cddolphin said: Yep, she's a walking-talking self-fulfilling prophecy. Poor girl. So there's a corner store near my work I stop at most days. Family-run place. There's always this indian cutie working the register who mean-mugs every annoying customer with this stunning death glare. Thus far our interactions have been limited to "hi, thank you, bye" but today I asked if she ever has a day off. She said "not really" and then started giggling like I was Dave Attell or something. Should I make her my wife? Just be nice to her as a general rule. She giggled because she was laughing at you. 16 minutes ago, EliteTexan80 said: Please leave that poor Indian girl alone. Yeah, listen to Tom. Not worth it if she has "buzz off" written on her forehead. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cddolphin Posted October 19, 2017 Share Posted October 19, 2017 Just now, scar988 said: Yeah, listen to Tom. Not worth it if she has "buzz off" written on her forehead. It wasn't directed to me, it's the people in queue in front of me who ring up a pack of menthols and a lotto ticket then pay in nickels. That's why I was a little taken aback when she flipped to giggle mode. Maybe I had something in my teeth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bowler1215 Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 Don't worry, I haven't made any effort to contact her. She's means less than nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LETSGOBROWNIES Posted October 20, 2017 Share Posted October 20, 2017 12 hours ago, cddolphin said: But the open contempt written all over her face during certain interactions really revs my engine.. A disgusted woman can be sexy as hell. Lucky for me my wife is borderline repulsed by most things I say and do. Make a move. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemushrooms Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 Gah just got dumped and it hurts like all hell. Really thought we had something going this time around...made it 5 months but floundered out hard at the end. Relationships are great but, man do they suck sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET80 Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 1 hour ago, bluemushrooms said: Relationships are great but, man do they suck sometimes. Best to get out now. All you can do is pick yourself up and push forward... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemushrooms Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 20 minutes ago, EliteTexan80 said: Best to get out now. All you can do is pick yourself up and push forward... Yeah you're right. For context and for anyone hoping to get back with an ex, I previously dated this girl for 5 years (first love) and after a 5-6 year break, I ran into her and we decided to try it again. My ex made the right call by deciding to break it off. We were more roommates/friends and we love each other a ton. It just sucks so bad that we had it all except for the romance... This break up is the saddest thing I've ever experienced lol. No specific reason for it to end, no fighting, no cheating, no nothing. We love each other but, just didn't love each other enough romantically and now we have to go No Contact and potentially never talk again... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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