Ty21 Posted February 5, 2019 Share Posted February 5, 2019 1 minute ago, Malfatron said: so a girl who is engaged to be married was sending you pity nudes? dont be sad its over. be glad it happend Don’t bring my race into this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikesfan89 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 I should probably lower my dating standards when I don't have a ton to offer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CWood21 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, vikesfan89 said: I should probably lower my dating standards when I don't have a ton to offer If she's got a pulse, she's good enough for you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manny/Patrick Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 I have a dilemma. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years, I used to mess around with one of her best friends. Nobody knows but me and her. We have had a friendship since, I’m not sure why, but I still have some sort of feelings for her. Occasion she comes over to our house. One of the times she came over she didn’t have a ride and I took her home and told her i felt something for her. She felt the same. I have 2 kids with my wife, I care about her. I’m just kinda torn on what to do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scoundrel Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 3 minutes ago, Manny/Patrick said: I have a dilemma. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years, I used to mess around with one of her best friends. Nobody knows but me and her. We have had a friendship since, I’m not sure why, but I still have some sort of feelings for her. Occasion she comes over to our house. One of the times she came over she didn’t have a ride and I took her home and told her i felt something for her. She felt the same. I have 2 kids with my wife, I care about her. I’m just kinda torn on what to do I would advise you don’t pursue the feelings. Let them be just what they are. Feelings. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. You have a wife and two kids. Be happy with the life you have. Some of us have lost what you have, some of us wish they could have it. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manny/Patrick Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Just now, Counselor said: I would advise you don’t pursue the feelings. Let them be just what they are. Feelings. The grass isn’t always greener on the other side. You have a wife and two kids. Be happy with the life you have. Some of us have lost what you have, some of us wish they could have it. I appreciate the feedback, I just feel more comfortable with her than my wife. I respect my marriage and wouldn’t cheat on her. Would you recommend marriage counseling? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scoundrel Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 2 minutes ago, Manny/Patrick said: I appreciate the feedback, I just feel more comfortable with her than my wife. I respect my marriage and wouldn’t cheat on her. Would you recommend marriage counseling? I do think Counseling can help. It can help unlock some perspective that maybe you or her haven’t taken on. I guess really what I would ask is the purpose of the counseling to help you make a decision on if you should continue your marriage, or pursue this friend? Or are you pursuing counseling to commit to whatever it takes to repair/strengthen your marriage? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manny/Patrick Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 4 minutes ago, Counselor said: I do think Counseling can help. It can help unlock some perspective that maybe you or her haven’t taken on. I guess really what I would ask is the purpose of the counseling to help you make a decision on if you should continue your marriage, or pursue this friend? Or are you pursuing counseling to commit to whatever it takes to repair/strengthen your marriage? I’m not sure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scoundrel Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 3 minutes ago, Manny/Patrick said: I’m not sure If you are not sure then I would say the first of the two purposes I stated. But only you really know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikesfan89 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 9 hours ago, Manny/Patrick said: I have a dilemma. I’ve been with my wife for 10 years, I used to mess around with one of her best friends. Nobody knows but me and her. We have had a friendship since, I’m not sure why, but I still have some sort of feelings for her. Occasion she comes over to our house. One of the times she came over she didn’t have a ride and I took her home and told her i felt something for her. She felt the same. I have 2 kids with my wife, I care about her. I’m just kinda torn on what to do It sounds like you have a good thing going. Unless you have big marriage problems already, I'm not sure why you'd mess with it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikesfan89 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 9 hours ago, CWood21 said: If she's got a pulse, she's good enough for you... I went on a date with a girl that I've been talking to for a little while and pretty much turned down a second date. Now I feel bad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LETSGOBROWNIES Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 16 minutes ago, vikesfan89 said: I went on a date with a girl that I've been talking to for a little while and pretty much turned down a second date. Now I feel bad Meh, it happens. Shrug it off and move on. Isnt this a better scenario than the chick agreeing to a few more dates (read: dinners and hundreds of dollars) if she’s not digging you? Besides, frees you up to go snag the next one. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Manny/Patrick Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, vikesfan89 said: It sounds like you have a good thing going. Unless you have big marriage problems already, I'm not sure why you'd mess with it My wife likes the Vikings, would that constitute big marriage problems 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikesfan89 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 16 minutes ago, Manny/Patrick said: My wife likes the Vikings, would that constitute big marriage problems Sounds like a keeper! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vikesfan89 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, LETSGOBROWNIES said: Meh, it happens. Shrug it off and move on. Isnt this a better scenario than the chick agreeing to a few more dates (read: dinners and hundreds of dollars) if she’s not digging you? Besides, frees you up to go snag the next one. TBH I'm a little surprised that she was still interested. Maybe it was I didn't try super hard or she thought I was desperate. She did offer to split the bill so it wasn't that. Side note: I saw a we ID sign with the date and the year was 1998. It took me a little while to wrap my head around that. Made me feel old 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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