Dome Posted December 9, 2018 Share Posted December 9, 2018 Just ran into an ex GF I hadn’t seen since HS. Only girl I’ve ever “seriously” dated other than my wife. God damn I dodged such a bullet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ty21 Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 (edited) 1 hour ago, Dome said: Just ran into an ex GF I hadn’t seen since HS. Only girl I’ve ever “seriously” dated other than my wife. God damn I dodged such a bullet Cause hot girls have egos? or is it the fact that 80% of former hs female classmates end up obese Edited December 10, 2018 by Tyty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FinneasGage Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 girl i was talking to for like 4 months ghosted outta nowhere. always the girls that tell you way too much stuff to make you sympathize with them that do that **** i find. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LETSGOBROWNIES Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 9 hours ago, FinneasGage said: girl i was talking to for like 4 months ghosted outta nowhere. always the girls that tell you way too much stuff to make you sympathize with them that do that **** i find. I’ve never understood how this is a thing. How hard is it to just be like “hey, this ain’t working about, good luck in the future”? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Gnat Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 The in-laws are finally gone, huzzah! It was really helpful to have them around, they did a ton of laundry, dishes and cleaning, but when they didn't have something to do, they are worse than 10 year olds. And they were here helping for a week almost. I know my wife was even ready for them to be gone. Now it's just wife and baby at home, so we'll see how that goes for her. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramssuperbowl99 Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 2 hours ago, LETSGOBROWNIES said: I’ve never understood how this is a thing. How hard is it to just be like “hey, this ain’t working about, good luck in the future”? Only takes one dude reacting poorly to that to make ghosting seem appealing. Agreed though, crappy thing to do. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LETSGOBROWNIES Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 17 minutes ago, ramssuperbowl99 said: Only takes one dude reacting poorly to that to make ghosting seem appealing. Agreed though, crappy thing to do. I get it, I just think there’s an adult way to go about it. If you think they’re going to flip out, do it in a public place or by phone. Obviously by phone isn’t ideal either, but it’s a much better alternative to ghosting someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramssuperbowl99 Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 Just now, LETSGOBROWNIES said: I get it, I just think there’s an adult way to go about it. If you think they’re going to flip out, do it in a public place or by phone. Obviously by phone isn’t ideal either, but it’s a much better alternative to ghosting someone. Yeah I'm sure there are horror stories out there of people doing it by phone and having some creep show up at their door a few hours later or whatever. I don't get why the creep would be less likely to show up at your door when you're not responding...but whatever. My stance on this is that it's annoying for sure (and a little bit insulting that someone who's dated you for more than a few weeks would think you're capable of that...), but I get it. Besides, it's just extra material for the "well she obviously wasn't that great*" post breakup process. *yes this is obviously censored 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gopherwrestler Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 Building on a wash bay on my shop, what a pain in the rear end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LETSGOBROWNIES Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 20 minutes ago, gopherwrestler said: Building on a wash bay on my shop, what a pain in the rear end. Sounds like you might be using the tools wrong.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pwny Posted December 10, 2018 Author Share Posted December 10, 2018 4 hours ago, ramssuperbowl99 said: Yeah I'm sure there are horror stories out there of people doing it by phone and having some creep show up at their door a few hours later or whatever. I don't get why the creep would be less likely to show up at your door when you're not responding...but whatever. My stance on this is that it's annoying for sure (and a little bit insulting that someone who's dated you for more than a few weeks would think you're capable of that...), but I get it. Besides, it's just extra material for the "well she obviously wasn't that great*" post breakup process. *yes this is obviously censored I always kinda figured it was because there’s a lot of /r/niceguys interactions that women see throughout their life, so they just try to stay out of those situations. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dome Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 (edited) A guy I work with has ghosted several girls he’s dated. Thought he was a jerkwad even before I found out about this, but it fit his personality perfectly. One of them showed up at his work and wanted to talk it out and made a big scene at work. He got in trouble that his personal life carried over into work like that plus his stuff got aired out for everyone to see. Another one he just vanished on had her brother get involved and track him down to figure out what the hell was going on, they’d been dating like 6 months. They lived together about half the time, both had their own apartments but each had belongings in the other persons apartment too. Some nights they’d be at his place, sometimes at hers. It was weird. Apparently he, just left for work one day and decided to live with his buddy instead of come back home that night and he never looked back. She threw all his stuff away and he never went back for any of it. He packed up her stuff and gave it to her parents. I dont see how thats easier than just dumping someone using pretty much any other method. He created a ton of drama for himself Edited December 10, 2018 by Dome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ramssuperbowl99 Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 4 minutes ago, pwny said: I always kinda figured it was because there’s a lot of /r/niceguys interactions that women see throughout their life, so they just try to stay out of those situations. Yeah that's the horror story side of it. Doesn't take too many of those situations before someone would say "never again". I get that, but I think it can be simultaneously a behavior that you understand and that is annoying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pwny Posted December 10, 2018 Author Share Posted December 10, 2018 22 minutes ago, ramssuperbowl99 said: I get that, but I think it can be simultaneously a behavior that you understand and that is annoying. For sure. And then there’s also the people who just don’t care about the feelings of other people and do what seems easiest for themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FinneasGage Posted December 10, 2018 Share Posted December 10, 2018 1 hour ago, pwny said: I always kinda figured it was because there’s a lot of /r/niceguys interactions that women see throughout their life, so they just try to stay out of those situations. whenever a homie tells me this happened to him i assume he got way too needy and clingy. she actually called this morning and explained that she was in a bad mental space and that this is something she goes through around this time of year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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