ET80 Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 34 minutes ago, Texansfan713 said: I have said it a good amount of times but she hasnt Wow...um...wow, yeah. She's just not that into you. As much as it sucks, you gotta walk. You'll be better off breaking it off with her, you're worth someone who can reciprocate your feelings. From the sounds of it, she's just using you. You can do better, Alfred. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluemushrooms Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 37 minutes ago, Texansfan713 said: I have said it a good amount of times but she hasnt Man, I know it's hard to do but, I'd recommend taking a step back and trying to see your whole situation from an outsider's perspective. Normally, FB isn't a big deal but, if she is flat out refusing to add you after a year, she keeps bailing on you, etc. then you are in a relationship where she doesn't seem to want to make any effort AND it's not even clear whether or not she's actually interested in you romantically. She can say whatever she wants but, everyone on this forum will agree that she's definitely fronting on you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CWood21 Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 51 minutes ago, Texansfan713 said: I have said it a good amount of times but she hasnt Yeah...it's time to cut the cord. Sorry buddy. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BobbyPhil1781 Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 Yeah, do what they said and if homegirl starts to chirp like a bird after you put your foot down, keep putting that foot down, and then the other foot, and move in the opposite direction she's standing. This is a trap you do not want to fall further down. Better to bite the bullet now than later. Sorry, man. Won't be the last time it happens to someone though. Witches be crazy sometimes. Pretty sure majority of this thread has dealt w/ it a time or two or six. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LETSGOBROWNIES Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Whew, bud, time to move on. Life’s short and this chick isn’t the one. 13 months together and she won’t accept your friend request? Ooof. You deserve better and there are TONS of chicks who would treat you better than this one. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MWil23 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 41 minutes ago, LETSGOBROWNIES said: 13 months together and she won’t accept your friend request? Ooof. I was thinking "Hmmm, maybe it's a communication issue and she is also high maintenance. Maybe it's time for a straight up make or break talk." Then, I saw that, laughed, and said "What else is there to think about? Move on." 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BobbyPhil1781 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 I've done this and it works. Just a PSA out there for all those indecisive women.......... as if there was a different kind 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetfan66 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 As everyone said, sucks but you need to move on. This girl is not worth the frustration. I've never heard of something so bizarre that your girlfriend won't accept your friend request. I can understand an ex deleting you but never a current girlfriend not accepting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jetfan66 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 1 hour ago, JTagg7754 said: I've done this and it works. Just a PSA out there for all those indecisive women.......... as if there was a different kind It is good logic but at the same time, her response could be where she thinks you'll take her. (i.e. You love BBQ and she knows that. She really wants Italian. When you ask her, she thinks you're taking her to BBQ because that is your favorite.) In conclusion, there is no winning on what goes on in the minds of females. We are all just trying to survive without pissing them off too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cddolphin Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 (edited) "Where do you think we're going?" "Seasons 52? OMG YOURE THE BEST" "Crap" I'll pass. Edited January 18, 2018 by cddolphin 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BobbyPhil1781 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 If you're not prepared to take the lady to any restaurant, y'all shouldn't be going out to eat lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cddolphin Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Just now, JTagg7754 said: If you're not prepared to take the lady to any restaurant, y'all shouldn't be going out to eat lol I spend all my money on avocado toast and iPhones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BobbyPhil1781 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 Just now, cddolphin said: I spend all my money on avocado toast and iPhones. Ahhh spoken like a true hipster who probably says he can't pay his rent also lol. Never got into avocados. Wish I could b/c of the health benefits but they're just weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ET80 Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 24 minutes ago, JTagg7754 said: If you're not prepared to take the lady to any restaurant, y'all shouldn't be going out to eat lol I'm lucky, my wife is good with low brow/hole in the wall places where we can get a few beers and eat. This being said, if I let my wife guess...the next thing I know, we're at Papa's Bros ordering oysters, ribeyes a few bottles of wine and we're dropping close to $500. No thanks. I'm happy she gets geeked out for beer, wings and trivia. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LETSGOBROWNIES Posted January 18, 2018 Share Posted January 18, 2018 27 minutes ago, JTagg7754 said: Ahhh spoken like a true hipster who probably says he can't pay his rent also lol. Never got into avocados. Wish I could b/c of the health benefits but they're just weird. No guacamole? Sounds like a miserable existence. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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